One’s had friends in bed and foes in bed.
How do you tell the difference?
A friend can wait, showing no heat,
No urgency.
The friend acts with simplicity,
Intuitively taking in each movement:
Packing it away as knowledge.
Enemies may never learn.
Don’t know the game.
Full of sexuality,
But kinky if encouraged.
Something’s missing in this bedfellow,
This fellow is a foe.
Soft, rough,
His bit of fluff will never feel enough.
In some way he’s the enemy.
The friend will stop when he intuits.
Never grouchy, even-tempered, ever civil,
Showing love in darling ways, –
Almost asking for permission,
Sex not the priority –
Except when it is, really.
It is sweet and turns one on.
Friends in bed, and foes in bed –
The difference subtle.
Friends produce a long-term trust,
Long-term acceptance;
Enmity defined by just
Its opposite:
Relation that starts out with love
And loses it.
Bedfellows 11.6.2012/ discovered on a scrap 6.4.2014 and re-worked.
Love Relationships II; Circling Round Eros II;
Arlene Corwin
